what you should know if you are going to peruse luxe to the third power.

obviously this is an intensely personal vanity site. as such, i talk about myself a lot. most of what i have to say is borne out of my relationships with friends, family, and work. in real life, i work hard and nearly always fail at striking a balance between holding too much back and being too honest. both states can be trying, painful, or hurtful to some people. it frustrates me that i can rarely please most people. i guess this site is the one place where i basically have only myself to please. so, i tend more towards too much honesty especially when i'm hurt or angry. hence i might talk about you if i know you. it might be oblique; you might be the only person to recognize yourself. if you have beef with anything said herein, your beef is with me and you should probably let me know. but if you choose to read my journal or any other section, please be fairly warned in advance. don't read if you don't want to know. i probably won't change anything based on your objections, but if it makes you feel better, vent it. but again. i promise no changes or alternations in return.

i'm not planning to diss anyone. i just realized this would be best stated explicitly than just implied.